ed recovery toolkit
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Best device for getting and maintaining erections
Most men after Prostatectomy will experience Erectile Dysfunction - this can be very frustrating. A Vacuum Erection Device with a constriction system is a non-invasive method of creating and maintaining erections (especially if pills/injections do not work).
You can also use this device for daily rehabilitation (to prevent penile shrinkage, regain length, and maintain penile health) Our recommended device is the Vacurect OTC10. This device is discreet, easy to travel with, and comes with 10 ring sizes.
Best first time vibrator for men (erection rehab and orgasm)
Many men in A Touchy Subject’s network find their experience of pleasure and orgasm different post-surgery. Adding new sensations with a vibrator can help find elusive orgasms, and offer a new way to have fun with a partner that is not dependent on erections.
We recommend the Manta by Fun Factory. This device can also be incorporated as part of your erection rehab regime.
Best first time vibrator for women (who enjoy clitoral stimulation)
This is perfect for women who enjoy external stimulation to the clitoris (fun facts: the clitoris is the only human organ designed for the sole purpose of receiving pleasure, and the whole structure contains as much erectile tissue as a penis!)
We recommend the Womaniser (awful name, but a great toy). This device uses air pressure technology to give a suction-y, fluttery, tongue-like feeling. It features body-safe material, is 100% waterproof, and rechargeable.
Best lubricant for men/couples post surgery
Finding the right lubricant for you and your partner is life changing. This is an essential for every Prostate Surgery Recovery Kit. Please note - it cannot be used with silicone products, this is best used on its own.
We recommend Uberlube. Long-lasting, silicone based, in an easy push-top bottle. Perfect for men learning to orgasm flaccid (this lube prevents friction). Perfect for women experiencing vaginal dryness or sensitive vulvas. The formula is hypo-allergenic and does not absorb into the skin. No more sticky, tacky lubes that you have to reapply - this one feels like liquid silk.
Best flavoured lubricant (to upgrade oral sex)
Many couples post-surgery focus on enjoyment and pleasure that does not depend on a full erection, such as oral sex.
To make oral even more fun, you might enjoy adding a flavour to the experience. We recommend the ‘Sliquid Swirl’ or ‘Intimate Organics’ range of flavoured lubricants. They are body-safe (can be ingested safely and used as an internal lubricant) and they are utterly delicious (not too sweet/sickly).
Best ‘sex blanket’ (for arousal incontinence)
Climacturia or Arousal incontinence (leakage during sex/orgasm/arousal) is common after Prostatectomy. In this situation, you might find the worry of leakage distracts from sexual enjoyment.
Getting a ‘sex blanket’ can help put these worries to rest. The Liberator Throw is designed to hold 3 litres of fluid without soaking through. It’s a soft, velvet-feeling blanket that you wash easily after use. This can also be a useful ‘initiating prop’ in the bedroom to let your lover know when you’re in the mood.
The information provided above is general in nature and is not intended for the purposes of diagnosis or treatment. Please always seek the advice of your medical practitioner for your individual situation.